Questionnaire for 24/7 Master/slave Profile:
Master Terry and slave matt

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WHO’S WHO?

Please give the full names you wish each member of the household or family to be identified by in the book, using caps or lowercase as you prefer — and if these are not legal names, please give those, too, for reference. While we hope that real names can be used for the most part, requests for confidentiality will be honored by the use of last initials or a pseudonym or nickname.

If there are non-slave members (boy, pet, lover, spouse, and so on), please list them, too (indicating the role or relationship), though the focus of the profile will be on the Master and (male) slave(s).

For each individual listed, please also indicate his (or her) birthdate, both to confirm legal age and to give a sense of the stage of life. If you’d rather not have an exact age printed in the book, also give an approximate age, like “early fifties” or “30something.”

Finally, please give the URLs for any relevant Web sites, blogs, MySpace pages, or other online profiles maintained by household/family members and a note as to which ones, if any, we may publish. We will not publish any of them unless you explicitly authorize it.

Full name for bookLegal name (if different)birthdateType of relationship
(lover, boy, spouse, etc.)
Relevant URL(s)
(web page, blog, etc.)
Master n/a
slave a n/a
slave b n/a
slave c n/a
slave d n/a
submissive a
submissive b
Non-submissive a
Non-submissive b

DURATION

When did each current relationship with the Master start? Please give at least the year, preferably month and year, and if a slave began as a lover, boy, or something else, please also indicate when the original relationship began and what kind it was at the start.

Month and yearOriginal kind of relationshipOriginal month and year
slave a
slave b
slave c
slave d
submissive a
submissive b
non-submissive a
non-submissive b

MASTER’S HISTORY

When did you first know that you wanted to own a slave? How did you come to know this?

Have you owned previous slaves that are no longer in service with you?
Yes  No If so, how many?

For each previous slave, please use the table below to indicate whether the M/s bond was:

Full- or part-time?LocationDurationEnding
prev. slave 1 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. slave 2 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. slave 3 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. slave 4 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. slave 5 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber

Were you the slave in any prior M/s relationship?
Yes  No

How many previous non-M/s relationships have you had?

How many were kinky (but not M/s)?

Did you take the submissive or bottom role in any of these relationships?
Yes  No


slaves’ HISTORY

For each current slave, please fill out a set of questions below.

slave a

 

When did you first know that you wanted to be owned/to serve a Master?

Have you served previous Masters?
Yes  No If so, how many?

For each previous Master you had, please indicate whether the M/s bond was:

  • full-time or part-time
  • local, distant, or cyberspace
  • how long it lasted (approximate weeks, months, or years)
  • why it ended
Full- or part-time?LocationDurationEnding
prev. Master 1 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. Master 2 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. Master 3 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. Master 4 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. Master 5 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber

Were you the Master in any prior M/s relationship?
Yes  No

How many previous non-M/s relationships have you had?

How many were kinky (but not M/s)?

Did you take the dominant or top role in any of these relationships?
Yes  No


slave b

 

When did you first know that you wanted to be owned/to serve a Master?

Have you served previous Masters?
Yes  No If so, how many?

For each previous Master you had, please indicate whether the M/s bond was:

  • full-time or part-time
  • local, distant, or cyberspace
  • how long it lasted (approximate weeks, months, or years)
  • why it ended
Full- or part-time?LocationDurationEnding
prev. Master 1 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. Master 2 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. Master 3 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. Master 4 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. Master 5 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber

Were you the Master in any prior M/s relationship?
Yes  No

How many previous non-M/s relationships have you had?

How many were kinky (but not M/s)?

Did you take the dominant or top role in any of these relationships?
Yes  No


slave c

 

When did you first know that you wanted to be owned/to serve a Master?

Have you served previous Masters?
Yes  No If so, how many?

For each previous Master you had, please indicate whether the M/s bond was:

  • full-time or part-time
  • local, distant, or cyberspace
  • how long it lasted (approximate weeks, months, or years)
  • why it ended
Full- or part-time?LocationDurationEnding
prev. Master 1 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. Master 2 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. Master 3 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. Master 4 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. Master 5 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber

Were you the Master in any prior M/s relationship?
Yes  No

How many previous non-M/s relationships have you had?

How many were kinky (but not M/s)?

Did you take the dominant or top role in any of these relationships?
Yes  No


slave d

 

When did you first know that you wanted to be owned/to serve a Master?

Have you served previous Masters?
Yes  No If so, how many?

For each previous Master you had, please indicate whether the M/s bond was:

  • full-time or part-time
  • local, distant, or cyberspace
  • how long it lasted (approximate weeks, months, or years)
  • why it ended
Full- or part-time?LocationDurationEnding
prev. Master 1 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. Master 2 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. Master 3 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. Master 4 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber
prev. Master 5 Full  Part Local  Distant  Cyber

Were you the Master in any prior M/s relationship?
Yes  No

How many previous non-M/s relationships have you had?

How many were kinky (but not M/s)?

Did you take the dominant or top role in any of these relationships?
Yes  No


CURRENT BONDS: BEGINNINGS

For each current Master/slave bond, please describe how it started and became established:

slave a

 

How did the Master and slave first connect?

Print advertisement
Online
Mutual friends
At a bar
At a sex club
At a leather event
Other (please describe)

How long did you “court” or negotiate?

How did you mark the beginning of a defined relationship? (for instance, a collaring ceremony or contract signing)

slave b

 

How did the Master and slave first connect?

Print advertisement
Online
Mutual friends
At a bar
At a sex club
At a leather event
Other (please describe)

How long did you “court” or negotiate?

How did you mark the beginning of a defined relationship? (for instance, a collaring ceremony or contract signing)

slave c

 

How did the Master and slave first connect?

Print advertisement
Online
Mutual friends
At a bar
At a sex club
At a leather event
Other (please describe)

How long did you “court” or negotiate?

How did you mark the beginning of a defined relationship? (for instance, a collaring ceremony or contract signing)

slave d

 

How did the Master and slave first connect?

Print advertisement
Online
Mutual friends
At a bar
At a sex club
At a leather event
Other (please describe)

How long did you “court” or negotiate?

How did you mark the beginning of a defined relationship? (for instance, a collaring ceremony or contract signing)


CURRENT BONDS: DEFINING THE DYNAMIC

For each current M/s bond, how would you characterize its principal dynamic? Master/servant, Owner/property, Owner/pet, Daddy/boy, Officer/soldier, Superior/inferior, ... or choose your own words.

slave a
slave b
slave c
slave d

CURRENT BONDS: LIFESTYLE BASICS

For each current slave, please indicate the following:

slave a

 

Does the slave live with the Master?
Yes  No

If not, where does he live?
Separate apartment nearby  Another city How far away?

Does he wear a collar?
Yes  No
If so, what type? (for example steel chain, leather, jewelry chain, solid metal, other)

And does he wear it all the time or only when he’s with the Master?
All the time  Only with Master  Other (please explain)

Where/how does he sleep? That is, in a bed or on the floor? whose bed/floor? in a cage? other?

Does he typically sleep in bondage?
Yes  No
If so, what kind and how often?

What are his domestic duties? Please be specific.

What are his sexual duties? Please be specific.

How does he dress (when allowed to do so)? Specifically, are there types of clothing or gear he must wear or cannot wear? If there are different requirements for different circumstances, please explain.


slave b

 

Does the slave live with the Master?
Yes  No

If not, where does he live?
Separate apartment nearby  Another city How far away?

Does he wear a collar?
Yes  No
If so, what type? (for example steel chain, leather, jewelry chain, solid metal, other)

And does he wear it all the time or only when he’s with the Master?
All the time  Only with Master  Other (please explain)

Where/how does he sleep? That is, in a bed or on the floor? whose bed/floor? in a cage? other?

Does he typically sleep in bondage?
Yes  No
If so, what kind and how often?

What are his domestic duties? Please be specific.

What are his sexual duties? Please be specific.

How does he dress (when allowed to do so)? Specifically, are there types of clothing or gear he must wear or cannot wear? If there are different requirements for different circumstances, please explain.


slave c

 

Does the slave live with the Master?
Yes  No

If not, where does he live?
Separate apartment nearby  Another city How far away?

Does he wear a collar?
Yes  No
If so, what type? (for example steel chain, leather, jewelry chain, solid metal, other)

And does he wear it all the time or only when he’s with the Master?
All the time  Only with Master  Other (please explain)

Where/how does he sleep? That is, in a bed or on the floor? whose bed/floor? in a cage? other?

Does he typically sleep in bondage?
Yes  No
If so, what kind and how often?

What are his domestic duties? Please be specific.

What are his sexual duties? Please be specific.

How does he dress (when allowed to do so)? Specifically, are there types of clothing or gear he must wear or cannot wear? If there are different requirements for different circumstances, please explain.


slave d

 

Does the slave live with the Master?
Yes  No

If not, where does he live?
Separate apartment nearby  Another city How far away?

Does he wear a collar?
Yes  No
If so, what type? (for example steel chain, leather, jewelry chain, solid metal, other)

And does he wear it all the time or only when he’s with the Master?
All the time  Only with Master  Other (please explain)

Where/how does he sleep? That is, in a bed or on the floor? whose bed/floor? in a cage? other?

Does he typically sleep in bondage?
Yes  No
If so, what kind and how often?

What are his domestic duties? Please be specific.

What are his sexual duties? Please be specific.

How does he dress (when allowed to do so)? Specifically, are there types of clothing or gear he must wear or cannot wear? If there are different requirements for different circumstances, please explain.


CURRENT BONDS: EMPLOYMENT AND FINANCES

What is the Master’s job or career? Or is he is retired or supported by his slave(s)?

Using the table below, please indicate each slave’s job or professional career or if he is retired or supported by the Master. Does the Master control the slave’s paycheck or other financial resources? Does the Master make provisions for the slave’s retirement (including deducting funds from the slave’s paycheck)?

Job, professional career,
retired, supported, other?
Master controls
finances?
Master provides
for retirement?
slave a Yes No Yes No
slave b Yes No Yes No
slave c Yes No Yes No
slave d Yes No Yes No

CURRENT BONDS: SEX

For each relationship between the Master and a slave or other member of the household/family, how important are sex and sexual attraction? How often per month (on average) does the Master have sex/make love with each other member of the household or family?

How important?How often?
slave a
slave b
slave c
slave d
submissive a
submissive b
Non-submissive a
Non-submissive b

Does the Master have sex/make love with others outside the household or family?   Yes No

If so, approximately how often?

Using the table below, please indicate if the slave wears a chastity device or otherwise has his sexuality controlled. If so, how often is he allowed to cum? Are there any special circumstances?

Sexuality controlled?
How?
Cum
frequency?
Special circumstances?
slave a
slave b
slave c
slave d

CURRENT BONDS: LOVE

For each relationship between the Master and a slave or other member of the household/family, what part does love play in it, if any? Is it romantic love (being “in love”) or something different?

slave a
slave b
slave c
slave d
submissive a
submissive b
Non-submissive a
Non-submissive b

Is there love (romantic or otherwise) between other members of the household/family? Please indicate for each individual (for example, “loves everybody,” “loves slaves a and c, pet, and spouse, but not boy,” “not in love with anybody except Master”).

slave a
slave b
slave c
slave d
submissive a
submissive b
Non-submissive a
Non-submissive b

CURRENT BONDS: DISCIPLINE

How is each slave’s bad behavior or inadequate performance corrected? Please explain how he is punished or otherwise disciplined.

slave a
slave b
slave c
slave d

CURRENT BONDS: RELATIVES AND FRIENDS

Do the Master’s relatives and friends know the nature of the Master/slave relationship(s)?
Yes  No  Some

How much contact with friends or relatives is each slave allowed? Do his relatives or friends know the nature of the bond with the Master?

How much outside contact?slave’s relatives
and friends know?
slave a All  Some  None
slave b All  Some  None
slave c All  Some  None
slave d All  Some  None

CURRENT BONDS: LIMITS

Using the table below, please indicate the limits, if any, placed on the slave’s submission. That is, what does the Master not control in his slave’s life? (for instance, career issues, voting, jury duty, religious exercise)

What kinds of things would the Master never demand of the slave?

Have these limits changed over time? If so, how?

LimitsMaster would never require...How have the limits
changed over time?
slave a
slave b
slave c
slave d

CURRENT BONDS: MASTER’S BENEFITS

Using the table below, indicate what the Master gets out of the bond. Please be as specific as possible.

BenefitsMost important benefit
slave a
slave b
slave c
slave d

CURRENT BONDS: slave’S BENEFITS

For each slave, what does the slave get out of the M/s bond? Please be as specific as possible.

BenefitsMost important benefit
slave a
slave b
slave c
slave d

CURRENT BONDS: CHALLENGES

For the Master and for each slave, what are the most challenging aspects of the M/s bond, or the biggest obstacles to be overcome?

Have there been times when you seriously considered breaking the bond? If so, how did you get past that point?

Challenges/obstaclesWhy didn’t one or
both parties quit?
Master
slave a
slave b
slave c
slave d

CURRENT BONDS: SPIRITUALITY

For the Master and for each slave, please describe the spiritual aspect, if any, of your M/s bond.

Do you follow any regular religious or spiritual practice?

Spiritual aspect?Regular religious or
spiritual practice?
Master
slave a
slave b
slave c
slave d

CURRENT BONDS: KEEPING IT FRESH

Please indicate what, if anything, the Master or slave does to keep things fresh and exciting.

If you signed a contract or performed a commitment ritual, do you renew/repeat it periodically? If so, what is the duration or period?

How to keep it fresh?Duration or renewal period
of contract or ritual?
Master & slave a
Master & slave b
Master & slave c
Master & slave d

CURRENT BONDS: LEATHER

For the Master and each slave, how important is “leather” and all that the term suggests to you?

Are you involved in the leather community? If so, how?

Importance of
“leather?”
What kind of leather
community involvement?
Master
slave a
slave b
slave c
slave d

CURRENT BONDS: S/M AND KINK

For the Master and each slave, how important are s/m practices such as flogging or bondage, or other kinds of kink like boot worship or pissplay? Are these engaged in mainly for pleasure (the Master’s or mutual), or is there a specific purpose, such as training or spiritual connection? Please be as specific about the kind of s/m or kink as you feel comfortable in sharing.

Besides s/m or kink between the Master and slave(s), please indicate for each whether they also engage in these practices with non-slave members of the household or family, or with others outside the household/family.

S/M, etc. with M/s partner(s): How important? Kind? Purpose? S/M, etc. with people in the household/family S/M, etc. with people outside the household/family
Master Yes No Yes No
slave a Yes No Yes No
slave b Yes No Yes No
slave c Yes No Yes No
slave d Yes No Yes No

CURRENT BONDS: PROTOCOL

Please describe whatever protocol or household rules apply to the slave(s) in this household or family. If these are written, please copy and paste here, or e-mail a copy. (Please let us know in the text area below if you’re sending e-mail.)

Are the rules different for different slaves or submissives in the household or family? If so, how?


THE LAST QUESTION: ADVICE

For the Master and each slave, if you could give a new M/s couple advice based on your experience, what would it be?

Alternatively, if you could go back and tell yourself something before you started this journey, what would it be?

Advice to newbies
or
retrospective advice to yourself!
Master
slave a
slave b
slave c
slave d

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Thank you very much for your time! If you have comments about this questionnaire or want to add anything about your relationship(s), please e-mail.

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